Well, there's only one way to keep score. You need results and paper trades aren't really results. People can easily lie to themselves and others but the numbers can't lie. Get the results behind you and you won't have to ask if it's working or not. It doesn't sound like you developed a strong edge to be honest, it's very difficult to find a strong one at first in general, but the problem you have with a minor edge is that you're constantly on thin ice and it can easily go wrong for whatever reason, so I'd say try and keep the pressure at a minimum and build on it until it gets stronger. Quitting your job at the first sign of success doesn't sound like a sensible idea, it sounds like you're adding a ton of unnecessary pressure on both yourself and your relationship with your wife.
Think there was a similar thread a few weeks ago (viewtopic.php?f=32&t=18491), there was a number of threads like this over the years so you can do a search as well.